tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34752832904278039852024-03-14T03:33:21.160+08:00蠢夫人30岁那年完成人生大事--结婚后就怀孕了. 在蠢人和我双方家庭背景都没有双胞胎的遗传的情况下,怀了同卵双胞胎-觉行兄弟.
34岁那年在觉行兄弟的3岁生日那天生下小儿:斌斌
从此:觉行斌三兄弟同月同日生Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14609895171406108679noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3475283290427803985.post-12413253203898142282017-08-21T09:41:00.000+08:002017-08-21T09:41:04.307+08:00蠢夫人搬家了<span style="background-color: white; color: #1f1f1f; font-family: Merriweather, Georgia, serif; font-size: 16px;">蠢夫人搬家了,这个blog会关闭。搬来这里后我只写跟育儿有关的分享,之前所有相关的文章也会慢慢移过来这里。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #1f1f1f; font-family: Merriweather, Georgia, serif; font-size: 16px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #1f1f1f; font-family: Merriweather, Georgia, serif; font-size: 16px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #1f1f1f; font-family: Merriweather, Georgia, serif; font-size: 16px;">最近工作很忙,但是我还是希望自己能有时间记录孩子的成长。写blog最大的动力来自于朋友们,有时候关于绘本的问题,也有写是关于双胞胎要注意些什么。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #1f1f1f; font-family: Merriweather, Georgia, serif; font-size: 16px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #1f1f1f; font-family: Merriweather, Georgia, serif; font-size: 16px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #1f1f1f; font-family: Merriweather, Georgia, serif; font-size: 16px;">然后我发现,写着写着,自己的育儿理念和方向就更加清晰了。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #1f1f1f; font-family: Merriweather, Georgia, serif; font-size: 16px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #1f1f1f; font-family: Merriweather, Georgia, serif; font-size: 16px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #1f1f1f; font-family: Merriweather, Georgia, serif; font-size: 16px;">每一个家长都是在孩子来临的那一天起学习为人父母,而且育儿这条路没有绝对的对错。我们就互相给彼此加油吧!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #1f1f1f; font-family: Merriweather, Georgia, serif; font-size: 16px;" /><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14609895171406108679noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3475283290427803985.post-27701496618920815352017-06-05T09:06:00.000+08:002017-08-19T22:48:22.402+08:00我的人间四月天2017<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
这篇已经迟了2个月,但是 ,还是要纪念一下我的36年的生日。</div>
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从4月到6月,我已经过了2017年最煎熬的日子,接下来要且行且珍惜。</div>
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从小到大我都是一个对自己的未来很有想法的人,一直清清楚楚地知道自己想要的是什么,想过怎样的生活,想成为怎样的一个人。如果我可以活到70岁,那么今年36岁的我,人生已经过了一半。30岁后,我一直在思考庆祝生日的意义。然后,我开始关闭脸书上关于我的个人资料,也不会公开我的生日。真正记得我生日的朋友不需要脸书的提醒,他们忘了我的生日也不会影响我们的友谊。</div>
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36岁了,我人生最大的成就就是生了3个同月同日生的<span style="font-family: "helvetica neue light" , , "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif;">儿子-觉行斌。庆幸自己还能在自己喜欢的领域工作,虽然钱赚得不多但是还算安定。最大的遗憾当然就是还缺个女儿,还没去看陈升的跨年演唱会。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "helvetica neue light" , , "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif;">人生只剩下一半了,我期望自己接下来的每一个生日都能过得有价值有意义。刚好我的生日是4月2日,愚人节后的一天,也是大家忙着清明祭祖的时候,更是世界自闭儿童关怀日。所以,我想说接下来我不庆祝生日,也请大家不需要破费送礼物。请把蛋糕钱和礼物钱花在需要的人身上吧!如果你想送个祝福给我,跟我说我会告诉你把钱捐到哪个需要的团体。谢谢我的同事们,一班耕耘人。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "helvetica neue light" , , "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif;">生日这一天,我只想和家人好好地过。今年生日可以一家人团聚就很开心地带爸爸妈妈一起去吃Gurney Paragon 吃miam mian。然后,巧遇同个月份生日的阿家先生,可惜我们忘了拍照。(带孩子带父母,要顾老要顾少的,就忘了)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "helvetica neue light" , , "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif;">来得及拍了一张全家福,可惜斌斌不看镜头。</span></div>
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吃饱以后就带孩子去攀岩,消耗体力。生日本来就不是一个人“开心”或“快乐”的事,年纪越大越发现快乐的来源是身边的人都开心。生日愿望在5月的时候就达成,所以就没什么好记录的了。</div>
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生日晚上和姐妹们去ENFD ( 读法:unfold) ,意思是一般朋友聚会的意思。</div>
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这个私房菜餐馆需要预定,食物和主橱同样可口(哈哈哈)。</div>
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多少年的友情,我们就这样有的没的<span style="background-color: white; color: #545454; font-family: Roboto, arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">肆无忌惮地聊天,开怀笑啊!</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14609895171406108679noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3475283290427803985.post-76380524193497181152016-07-19T08:40:00.001+08:002017-08-19T22:48:13.942+08:00故事一则:模范生<p dir="ltr">下课铃声响起,她开始紧张起来了。下一节就是班级任的课,她是不是应该把昨天看见的事情一五一十地告诉老师呢?可是这样同学一定会生气她,然后又怪她多管闲事了。<br>
她握住了拳头,告诉自己立场要坚定,然后重复老师的话:你这样做不是害了你的同学,而是在帮他。</p>
<p dir="ltr">起立,行礼,老师早安!</p>
<p dir="ltr">然后她马上举手说:老师,我昨天看见陈同学放学后进去叮叮店打电动。</p>
<p dir="ltr">然后,陈同学被老师骂了一顿还被处罚了。放学后,她被陈同学骂还被他踢了一脚。</p>
<p dir="ltr">她没告诉老师每次她指证同学后都会被同学打被同学骂。</p>
<p dir="ltr">年终结业礼,她上台接过模范生的奖杯。</p>
<p dir="ltr">她知道从此她的名字不再是"那个无药可救的学生的妹妹",也不是"插班生",而是模范生。</p>
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小美很期待全新的开始,在这件学校老师只会叫她小美,而不是谁谁谁的妹妹。<br>
小美很努力地在看哥哥的课本,也许可以再一次读完黑板上的字,给老师留下好印象。<br>
小美还学唱新学校的校歌,开学第一天的周会她一定要像个好学生。<br>
然后开学的第一天,和蔼可亲的班级任给同学们介绍说:小美,插班生,你们的新同学。<br>
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<p dir="ltr">小美原本是副班长,但刚开学的第一个星期就被班级任发现没交功课而被革职,同学们觉得不交功课的就是懒惰虫,坏学生,所以都不跟她玩。</p>
<p dir="ltr">小美在班上是例外,只有她不需要做值日生,只有她每天需要校长帮忙检查书包和功课,只有她在休息节时可以留在班上吃东西。</p>
<p dir="ltr">小美是例外,学校假期还没开始她就放假了。<br>
小美是例外,二年级开学的那一天大家都回来上课了,她却再也没有出现了。</p>
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14609895171406108679noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3475283290427803985.post-39531020579373654032016-04-17T14:28:00.000+08:002017-08-19T22:48:55.102+08:00我的人间四月天<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
人间四月天系列写了几年,发现四月一直都是我人生里做最大改变的一年。在我10岁那年,第四任首相马哈迪提出了2020年宏愿。那时,我心想2020年,30年后的事啊~谁能说得准, 然后偷偷算一下那时的我是几岁,我究竟会变成什么模样 . </div>
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就这样,今年2016年了。</div>
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还有4年就2020年了。</div>
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时间真的过得很快啊~就这样35岁了。</div>
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30岁过后,我都不庆祝生日,不为什么,就因为我觉得生日不值得庆祝,生日那天是我的me time,是我和家人好好渡过的一天。也只有好好地生活,才能谢谢父母带我来到这个世上的恩惠。</div>
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生日切蛋糕变成孩子最爱的环节,如果斌斌也在那就好了。</div>
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first quarter:<br />
开年,迎接斌斌的来临,我家觉行斌三兄弟同月同日生,真的是值得庆祝的一大盛事。然后收拾好一切,和斌斌分隔槟城和吉隆坡两地,不停地思念。<br />
second quarter:<br />
工作十年,终于在职场获得肯定,也被赋予了更大的责任。对于工作,我一直保持着少说话,多做事的态度。面对问题的时候,我只想解决问题而不是追究问题的来源。我一直提醒自己,工作一直是一个团队努力朝向同一个方向,如果我没有办法带着大家走同一条路,我就只好绕道,跟随大伙。尽管我知道,那条路比我想走的会艰辛一些,但是说不定沿路有更美的风景。工作本来就不是个人秀,而是集体创作。<br />
这个quarter,我努力学习放慢脚步,努力融入新角色。<br />
third quarter:<br />
洧杰和我自拍拖以来鲜少相隔两地,然后因为洧杰有自己想要努力的方向,我也不想成为他绊脚石,所以洧杰出国工作了。老公不在身边,我努力地维持工作和家庭的平衡点,还要来往吉隆坡和槟城,说不累是假的。只是,我记得刚和洧杰在一起的时候,我们互相承若过,你软弱时我坚强,互相扶持是夫妻相处之道。在这过程中,我当然怨言也不少,可是这样的日子就这样过去了。<br />
送走了老公,然后又送走了上司,职场上的人来来往往的。这个quarter我极度emo,却也继续让工作填满自己。<br />
last quarter:<br />
相隔半年后,洧杰回国了。就这样让自己活到了在2015年的最后一季,独自带觉行兄弟出门已经不是问题,然后开始约朋友聚会,即使洧杰不在身边也不让觉行可怜兮兮地待在家里哪里也去不了。<br />
工作算是上手了,却也忙着赶上进度。<br />
虽然面对了好一些突发状况,可是这就是生活,反正生活就是如此有起有落,无常多变,我何不泰然处之?<br />
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2015年,设下的目标有些没办法完成,2016就继续吧!<br />
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2016年的座右铭是:慎终如始,则无败事。<br />
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调整好心态,永远记住自己那颗稚心,想要完成一定能完成,也不急于是否要在一年达成。梦想不需伟大,目标必须明确,方法一定要对,心态必定要正,心跳必需要炽热。<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14609895171406108679noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3475283290427803985.post-44757388819767701752013-06-28T19:45:00.001+08:002017-08-21T09:54:02.669+08:00关于结婚周年纪念老实说,我真的忘了我和蠢人的结婚纪念日。<br />
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也不知道应该庆祝哪一个?(烦!)<br />
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幸好蠢人是数字人,他大概记得大部分重要的日期,所以我赶快写下来,记录一下:<br />
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2007年7月29日- 正式在一起(也是佛青日)<br />
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2009年9月19日- 蠢人100颗气球求婚,然后隔天去出席家奕和万兴的ROM<br />
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2010年1月9日- 在千百家佛教会注册<br />
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2011年5月14日- 在槟城宴客<br />
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2011年5月15日- 在槟城《三慧讲堂》进行佛化婚礼<br />
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2011年5月29日- Actual day 在Glenmarie Cove出门和宴客 <br />
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那么多日子,基本上我们只庆祝729。<br />
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呵呵 ~ 这只是一篇black & white ,也许有一天我失忆,这篇文可以提醒些什么~<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14609895171406108679noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3475283290427803985.post-79206496680563307762013-06-07T20:44:00.001+08:002021-04-25T22:14:12.065+08:00我也梦见阿嬷昨晚,我想我好像也梦见阿嬷了。<br>
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在我想念她的时候找到这张照片<br>
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那时,我还很小,好像1岁多而已。<br>
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通常,我都很少发梦的。也不曾梦见过“死者”。<br>
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但是,昨天晚上我好像梦见阿嬷了。我只是感觉上梦到了而不是梦见她。因为,我没有看见她的模样。 但,我知道我梦到的应该就是阿嬷。<br>
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梦境里感觉上,阿嬷很巨大而我很渺小,然后我好像躺在她的怀抱里,她轻轻地摸摸我的头,什么都没说。我睡得很沉很香。<br>
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然后,我差点睡迟了醒。<br>
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我想,应该只是日有所思夜有所梦吧!<br>
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真的,想念了。<br>
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<br>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14609895171406108679noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3475283290427803985.post-80977170690956252722013-03-07T18:01:00.000+08:002017-08-24T09:03:09.214+08:00外婆的体重<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;">
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">她长得十分高挑,大约有</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";">173</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">公分,算是有模特儿样貌和身形。她早婚,几乎是目不识丁,却咬紧牙关带大</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";">10</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">个儿女。我外公年轻时好赌,所以我外婆那时的生活十分艰苦。我妈妈说,外婆希望儿女能够读书成材,所以,她以前拿成绩单时都十分害怕,因为外婆一定会打她。退步了一定要打,进步了也要打,打来警惕我妈妈。呵呵。。。但是,我妈妈他们几兄妹都知道,我外婆都是为了他们的将来,只是不知道如何表达。后来,我大舅,我妈妈还有几兄妹都出来工作赚钱养家后,家里经济比较好转,又加上生了</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";">10</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">个孩子,外婆的体重增加了,可是,担子却轻了。</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">后来,我上小学了,外婆的体重又增加了。那时,外婆终于了了一件心愿,上义校学写字。我还记得,那时外婆写字认真的模样,她的字十分端正,好像还得奖咧!</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">再后来,我小舅舅也要结婚了,外婆终于可以完完全全的享福了,却发现自己得了乳癌。她一向还有糖尿病,高血压等。。。这时,外婆的脾气开始暴躁了。她难得可以享福了,结果身体状况却不允许!她开始怨天尤人!不过,外婆却很少生气我们孙辈的!</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">在我结婚的那时,外婆的体重减少了一点。身体健康亮起了红灯,我跟外婆说:你要保重健康噢!我想带你去吉隆坡看我出嫁。外婆直说好!可是接近我的婚礼时,外婆又住院了。我还记得,我在槟城请酒时,外公外婆手拿拐杖走进来。我觉得刹那间他们都老了!那身影不再巨大,那声音不再洪亮!但是,外婆那天仍然是精神奕奕的,脸上挂着笑容,我知道她在为我开心。</span></div>
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p/s: 我还记得我有一张和外婆年轻时拍的照片,可是找不到,找到了再upload ~<br />
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p/s: 找到照片时外婆已经往生第10天。Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14609895171406108679noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3475283290427803985.post-42740510534881758532013-02-25T20:50:00.001+08:002017-08-21T09:54:44.959+08:00不曾公开的生产日记双胞胎,自然产?似乎遥不可及,对吗?庆幸我经历了这个难得的过程。<br />
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那绝对不是偶然的一天。<br />
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我还在怀孕时,我和蠢人常猜孩子们会选什么时候到来。我们给孩子的条件是:必须是35个星期后(因为通常双胞胎会早产),体重恰好的时候才可以出来。我猜可能会落在年初七人日,蠢人则猜可能和天公同一天也说不定。<br />
结果,人日后我回到1u租房睡准备隔日开工,正要就寝的时候,肚子里的那个气球破了。然后,下体一阵暖流,有水流出了来,是的,破。水。了。<br />
然后,蠢人就在房里跺来跺去,想要准备些什么,却也不知从何下手。我拿了待产包给他,然后说:我要穿美美见我的孩子。然后,他也说我也要穿美美。呵呵。。。<br />
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虽然羊水破了,但是镇痛却还没开始。临进院时,我怕待会儿肚子俄,蠢人还去打包了mamak档的 indo mee给我。<br />
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到了医院,护士给我做内检,蠢人在一旁看,他想学起来,搞不好改次可以帮我做。我觉得蠢人比较像是医学系的学生来实习的感觉。内检结果,3CM。所以就住院等子宫开。和蠢人在病房吃东西,玩拍照后,我有点累了,想睡。镇痛开始明显,我痛的时侯就告诉蠢人,他帮我记录。从20分钟一次到10分钟一次时,我的肚子开始绞痛,可是那种感觉好像是要泻肚子,结果我在厕所泻了无数次,害我和蠢人一度怀疑是临生产才食物中毒。当我肚子里的肝肠几乎寸断(肝肠寸断不是这个意思,但是如果思念一个人可以用肝肠寸断来形容。那种思念绝对是十分痛苦的。扯远了。。。),就在那个时候,我呕了。一旦吐了,我就心安了。因为我妈妈也是临生产时呕吐,所以我相信那兄弟俩是要出来了!<br />
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WOMEN'S POWER多么奇妙,妈妈和女儿之间的联系可以那么不可思议,俩人的生孩子PATTERN可以那么一样。呵呵……我要生女儿啦!!!<br />
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那时,早上6点多7点,医生来帮我做内检,5CM,是时候进产房了。还没进产房,我就说要打epidural,结果去到产房,大家准备一番,大约早上8点,我的子宫已经开到8个CM了,这个时候打太浪费了!(那兄弟俩,真替我省钱)话说回来,产房虽然冷冰冰的,但是气氛却像游乐场,有些人跑来跑去,有的高兴得跳起来,有的尖叫!蠢人担心这个尖叫的气氛会让我紧张,想尽快帮我安排打epidural的时候,结果就在外面遇见那个尖叫中的妈妈的老公,他不知所措的样子,在等候处,老婆的尖叫让他坐立不安。蠢人问他:你不进去陪你老婆?他一直摇手说不要,一脸不知所措。呵呵,蠢人觉得他们夫妻俩很好笑。尖叫声声停了,一阵哭声穿了出来,她孩子出来了。我在产房里还在八卦外面发生的事。然后,突然我镇痛越来越大,越来越频密,兄弟俩开始要钻出来来了,医生还没到,我开始用力帮忆觉一把,护士看情况不妙,再次帮我内检,检查后却一声不响的,我问他是不是开完了?他只是说:你先不要用力,医生还没来。天啊!!我感觉到那兄弟俩已经迫不及待的要钻出来了,我能不用力吗?这个时候,全部护士已经全副武装,如果我的主诊医生还没到,就由 doctor on duty来帮我接生了。这时早上9点,蠢人在一旁安抚我,看样子我们可以开始了,就在这个时侯,我的主诊医生到了,由于所有人都带手套和口罩了,只好让蠢人帮医生带口罩,场面有点搞笑。<br />
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好了,人齐了,我开始用力咯!于是我在没有麻醉,医生在不确定忆觉的位置的情况下,开工咯!起初,我用蛮力死命push,可是就是不行,蠢人这时握住我的手说:“来~你是勇敢的白羊座,你一定可以的”。天啊!我已经没力了,为什么蠢人就不能说点正常的话鼓励我?要不是我正在"忙",我还真想打他!!!!后来在配合呼吸和镇痛的情况下下,把忆觉给挤出来了!蠢人说忆觉出来的时候是脸向下的。然后护士很快的把血淋淋的忆觉放在我的肚子上就拿走了,我忘了护士说什么,我甚至连忆觉的脸都没有看仔细,因为这时医生正在确定忆行的位置,而我正在虚脱中。几乎没有时间休息,医生要我再来。我用我所剩无几的力气再次开工,可是医生不满意,还说:再不快点就要用吸盘把忆行给吸出来了!天啊!我已经精疲力尽了,而且阵痛也不明显了,你要我怎样嘛!我在心里嘀咕,是谁说生双胞胎很容易,挤第一个出来后,第二个就很容易的?(我知道是谁说的:那个也生过双胞胎的妇产科医生在给讲座时说的,不过她的双胞胎是第2胎,情况不太一样)。我再次感觉那微微的阵痛,然后配合呼吸,用尽所剩的力气把庄忆行给推出来。BRAVO!忆行刚来到这世上时是脸向上的~兄弟俩的性格果然不一样!<br />
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我以为噩梦结束了,谁知道过后缝针更恐怖。由于没有麻醉的缘故,我清楚地感觉到那针线从我的皮肉穿过,然后缝完后,医生再次检查结果,发现我的下体terrible tear,结果把线拆了又重新缝过。蠢人这时在外面看兄弟俩洗白白。我在产房里的呼叫几乎让人以为我生的是3胞胎。</div>
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终于结束了,我看着那两个小人儿,心里无限感动。他们在肚子里有听我说话哦!没有让我痛太久,也没有体重过轻而需要住院。(所以,胎教真的很重要!)</div>
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就这样,俩个宝宝一人躺我的左手一人躺我的右手,一起送回病房。过路人看见都十分好奇,护士帮我回答,自然产噢!我一脸骄傲!呵呵,我可以做到,我相信每个人都可以,只要相信自己,我们做女人的就是有这种能耐!</div>
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我再次强调,我是在没有止痛的情况下自然诞下双胞胎孩子噢!看着孩子,我想我的肚子到底是怎样装下他们俩?<br />
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就这样,孩子离开了我的肚子,走进了我的生活。<br />
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p/s: 发现这篇稿时,孩子刚庆祝1岁生日。从瘦粑粑的小baby到今天会走会跑的小人儿,真叫人感慨时光飞逝~<br />
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蠢人再事后说,由于过程十分紧张,他要在我身旁握住我的手“鼓励”,所以没有办法站在医生后面,没有办法以医生的角度来看整个过程,真是遗憾!天啊!你真的以为你是实习医生哦!<br />
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